If you ask a woman the type of man she is willing to date or get into a relationship with, she’ll answer with something like: “I want a NICE GUY who comes from a good family… who is sensitive, caring, romantic, dependable… a man who can be my best friend… etc.” But when you’re out and about and you look around, you will notice that the majority of women seem to be found with truly “bad boys”, or guys who are exactly the opposite of what they say they want. Why is that? Truth is, it’s not what women SAY they want, but it’s what they are ATTRACTED to. Women choose the men that they feel attracted to, but not necessarily the men that are good for them. As dating expert David DeAngelo has written: “When we are attracted to someone else, it takes control of us and there’s almost NOTHING WE CAN DO ABOUT IT.” Acting OVERLY nice never causes a woman to feel attraction for you Most men try to prove themselves to women that they are good for them by giving them gifts and flowers. They take a woman out to fancy dinners, and spend tons of […]
Here’s how to stir up sexual feelings in a woman and make her feel a sexual connection to you. This approach to talking to a woman makes you stand out from other guys and sets you up as an attractive guy. Thereby increasing your chances of “getting physical” with the woman you’re interested in. Because when you engage a woman in this form of conversation, not only does it make her want to keep talking to you, it also turns her on and gets her thinking about sex with you. Now, what conversational technique am I talking about here… …this is none other than taking your conversation with a woman SEXUAL. Or more accurately, talking about sexual topics. Most men are afraid to offend a woman Unfortunately, this ISN’T what most men talk about with a woman they want to get into a romantic relationship with. Most men only talk about safe and neutral topics with a woman they’re interested in. Because they’re afraid of the negative impression the woman might have of them. But truth is, women enjoy having sexual conversations. They enjoy that tingly feelings of sexual tension. And the guy who can stir up that sexual feelings […]
Let me just put this out there. Do not start with a dick pic. That should go without saying, but honestly, this is not the way to get things started. I know you are anxious to show her how hot and hard she makes you, but when you rush into sexting with a forceful tone like this, you are going to throw her off big time. So, you have a girl you want to start sexting with? Here are some tips on how to get started and woo her into wanting to sext with you. Play it Casual If she thinks that sexting is all you want, she might be turned off immediately. Sometimes it is hard for guys to understand that girls aren’t wired for sex 24/7. The analogy I like to use is the moon. For guys, sex is like the full moon. They are pretty much always up for it and ready. Girls are more like a crescent moon. They are interested, of course, but you need to help get them to the full moon. And just like the moon’s cycle you can’t skip from crescent moon to full moon instantaneously. You need to through each […]
Traditional dating is quite simple; it is going out to a social event, (Bar, community gathering, library, coffee shop, sporting event, etc,) and meeting people. While you are out, your eye catches someone who tickles your fancy and you make your way over there to start a conversation. While conversing, you decide to give this person your phone number. You both start talking and then one day decide to go out on a date. That is what traditional dating is all about. Make no mistake, meeting people offline is better than meeting them online. Today, people have given up on traditional dating. It’s work. It’s effort. People want that quick relationship and that quick date. And if they get into a situation, they just are a click away from replacing them instead of working things out. The first thing you see online is someone’s profile picture and dating profile. Not only can they post fake pictures, there have been people who post pictures of what they looked like five years traditional dating is better than online dating ago! They also can tell you they love life when in fact they complain about just about everything. When you meet someone in […]
Distance is challenging for any couple, but there are a few tips and tricks to make the long-distance seem just a little closer. From talking about your day to planning a visit, closing the gap in little ways is vital for a healthy and happy long-distance relationship. Check out these top tips for creating a lasting long-distance relationship that loves in all the little ways possible. Image Credit: pexels.com Keep Positive Communication Positive communication helps cultivate a happy relationship. By establishing healthy boundaries and keeping up positive and intentional communication, your relationship can manage the ups and downs that distance creates. Send Letters Snail mail letters may be a thing of the past, but they can make your partner feel more cared for by having a personal note to hold onto. Whether you are writing poems or simply catching up about your life, a hand-written letter can help your partner feel all the more loved. Give a Special Object Give a special object to your partner before you part ways. A stuffed animal, t-shirt, or baggy pair of sweatpants all count as a special object that gives your partner a piece of you. Leave it as a surprise or a […]
Dating has come a long way in the last 20 years. We have gone from introduction agencies where lovelorn singles were matched with a suitable partner based on an interview, to online dating apps where users swipe left or right based on a photo. In theory, online dating is a quick and easy way to meet Mr Right, but in practice, the entire process is a minefield. Most people use online dating sites without incident. They might not meet Mr Right, but they certainly don’t end up buried in a field. However, this doesn’t mean there are not sexual predators, manipulative narcissists and opportunities lurking out there in the ether. Online dating sites attract just as many weirdos as any other niche community, so it pays to be vigilant and keep your wits about you. To ensure you stay safe, here are some simple tips to help you navigate the world of online dating. Personal Information There is a world of information online, from addresses to telephone numbers. Much of this information exists on social networking sites, but if you Google a person you will find plenty more snippets of information about them. The point I am making here is […]
Having Fun Without Putting Yourself at Risk You should remember your dates for all the right reasons, not just because something went wrong! So, you’re single and looking to get out there and have some fun. Great! Playing the field and meeting some new ladies will see you meeting Mrs Right soon enough – and provide you with plenty of fun-filled evenings in the meantime. While it’s easy to get caught up in a whirlwind of hot dates though, it’s important to never forget your own safety. After all, what is a sensual night between the sheets can leave you with some pretty unpleasant side effects later on! So here’s your guide to dating safely without sacrificing on any of the pleasure. Don’t get too drunk Sometimes it’s tempting to rely on some Dutch courage to help you approach an attractive lady, but mixing lots of alcohol and romance can sometimes lead to dire consequences. From waking up in the morning and not remembering where you are to not being totally in control of your actions, getting drunk during a date can be disastrous. Besides, if you drink too much you’ll be unlikely to remember what happened the night […]
Finding love doesn't need to be difficult if you follow these rules while dating. Getting back into dating can be pretty scary. We're bombarded with so much information about what we should and shouldn't do that the whole experience soon becomes no fun at all. So how can you successfully play the dating game? Well, this guide will tell you everything you need to know – and forget – about modern dating.